HELP!!!!!! IM CONFUSED!! AND HELPLESS!! =(?

okay so long story short my boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me 3 days dats. it was out of the sky blue and i feel really hurt. we've been thru a lot together considering the fact that he has a baby mama who doesn't want him to date other girls even though she has a boyfriend of her own. All thru our relationship we had lots of ups and downs esp. downs but the love we had for each other kept as going. he is a cutie and a player too but i still loved him very much. he is 19 and im 16. we were on and offs alot of times during our relationship. but everytime we broke up a week or so later he would come back begging me and saying he loves me soo much and cant live without me. A major problem we had was the fact that he wanted to have sex but i didnt.. i am a Christians and my bleieve goes against pre-marital sex. but my baby boy just simply could not understand that and pressured me alot to break my virginity to him. but i was strong enough and never gave in to the pressure. i loved him very much and he made it clear that he loved me too. we had soo much fun together and the chemistry was also good. but for the past month or so he had been very distant and when i asked him why he said he was depressed and had lots on his mind. only 19 with a one yr old son and a baby mama that is always causing drama. i loved his son so much and my step son(ex tears*) liked me too.. but back to us, by boyfriend broke up with me 3 days ago and his reason is because im 16 and too young for him WTF? we been together for what 10 months and u just realize that? i was hurt and upset about it so i didnt tlk to him. but i feel like he has other reasons since he is such a big flirt and player. i didnt expect this break up to come and im very broken hearted. but what i dont get is why he keeps texting me. he would text me like 2 or three times a day and be "hey baby" or "hey sup" or pumpum(my nickname lol) but i have been ignoring it all.... does he want me back>? does he want to be friends? why is he still contacting me and acting as if nothing happened between us?